“I Will Protect You Always!” NOT.

“I Will Protect You Always!”

bad-dream-shiftEver say anything like that to your kids? Watch out!  That’s a promise that no one can possible keep – and – read on to  find out how it may even hold you back!

“Mary” came to me saying, “I wish I could make more money (as a seamstress serving local clientele and dry cleaners, making $15 an hour), but I feel like there’s some kind of hand holding me back.”

After a little investigation, I found out that she had been in a bad car accident with her 15-month old son 22 years ago. Her husband had been killed; she sustained minor injuries; the baby was fine.

IT’S SOMETHING ELSE….

Something told me it wasn’t the accident that was the key traumatic event, although it, indeed, had been traumatic. I had a strong feeling that there was something else.

Sure enough, as we talked and tapped, it came out that on the way home from the hospital, she had looked her son in the eye, and – although she knew he wouldn’t get what she was saying – she told him, “don’t worry, I’ll protect you always!”

At the time of her session, she was angry and upset because her son “acted like a spoiled brat,” and was surly and resentful that he still lived at home, although he’d wanted to move out since he was 18.

She’s a talented dress maker, but stayed home ostensibly because she wanted a “strong family unit.” They both felt trapped.

After we released the trauma of the car accident and her husband’s death, we also released the snag of the vow to watch over her son “always.”

She realized having a strong family included letting her son go out into the world to do his own learning and contributing, and for her to do the same with her own talents.

She signed off the call feeling free and excited – and with a list of stage managers she knew personally who she was going to contact to see if she could serve them with costume creation, her first love.

As I write this, they are on a flight together to NYC, where he will study – ironically – acting. He no longer “acts out,” is happy and even excited.

WHAT VOW DID YOU MAKE?
WHAT BELIEF HAVE YOU BEEN ENFORCING?

Can you see how one belief, one declaration, one vow can grow out of a traumatic experience and hamper more lives than even your own?

What vow did you take that holds you and/or someone else back?

I ASK YOU:

“What decision did you make in a time of trauma or upset, what belief do I hold, what vow did you take that keeps you living an itty-bitty life…
•  when you and your spectacular voice could be on stage entertaining or helping others?
•  when your art could grace homes, offices, gardens and outdoor plazas and courtyards around the world?
•  when your knowledge of health/fitness/weight-management care could save someone’s life?
•  when your business knowledge could help someone succeed, make money and help others, as well as better support her family?
•  when your communication techniques and skills could help individuals, companies and countries working for peace instead of fighting interminably?

WHO and HOW MANY ARE MISSING OUT
BECAUSE  YOU HAVE UNRELEASED TRAUMA?

I invite you to finally ELIMINATE the TRAUMA you went through – whatever it was, mild or extreme – and its after effects, limiting decisions, beliefs and habits – from YOUR LIFE!

Make the commitment to your inner health and well-being – email me with your concerns and we’ll set up one or more Trauma-Busting Sessions for you!

Send Shadow Packing!

I don’t know about you, but sometimes, in my life, it feels like there’s a big old black shadow hanging over me and my life, and it’s really hard to remember how to get out from under it. So I thought I’d share with you the 10 steps that I use to send that shadow on its way. Remember to use tapping as you walk through each step!

Right click on the cover image to download this FREE shorty ebook!

 

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ARTISTS: Want to Make and Sell More Art?

As you may know, I am re-journeying into my art world after a 10-year hiatus. It’s taken some pretty massive tapping, because I’m bumping into all the old beliefs and ideas that limited me before.

The HUGE difference being that now I know what to do when I’m assailed by doubt and fear, and I can take immediate action to change my reality.

This is a VERY big deal for me, because I used to cry myself to sleep every single night – for years – feeling helpless, alone, desperate and dead broke.

IT’S WORKING!
Recently I was introduced to a woman who is putting together a new gallery in my town. In the past, I’d have said hello and been friendly, but not said a whole heck of a lot about my work.

If you don’t know how to use tapping – or, EFT, the Emotional Freedom Techniques, I invite you to read my Basics EFT book (HERE).

I had this belief that “my work speaks for itself, why should I say anything about it? Anyone who doesn’t get it doesn’t deserve to hear it from me!”

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Got Fear of Cold Calling? Or ANY Calling?

Maybe you feel freaked out by having to make business phone calls where you don’t know the person very well – or maybe even not at all….

Perhaps you’re afraid you’ll get rejected, or even laughed at! Or maybe they won’t sign up for your services? Or…(____ you fill in the blank ____ ) .

Here’s what someone said recently (thx, NM): “I have a fear of making cold calls. Even if we have exchanged emails and are now at the point of connecting over the phone I have a hard time picking up the phone and calling. I hope nobody laughs at me….”

If you feel squeamish about calling people – for whatever reason – cold-calling, warm-calling, or even hot-calling(!) – and you want to feel happy, excited and confident that you’ll get the intended results you want, you’ll want to join me on this 60-minute audio.

Yup, it’s free. AND…get ready to do some inner exploration! This is not any old namby-pamby little freebie where you sit and soak it in! You’ll get real results if you allow yourself to use the critical information I give you, and do the work I lead you through in this powerful call. 

When you listen to this teleclass audio and use the Cheat Sheet and the Draw-the-Line Process I give you, you’ll discover how to turn your calling fears into delightful creative energy you can use to produce the business success results you want…and feel great, too!

I show you the unique, proprietary system I use to get great results – it’s faster and more powerful than just using conventional EFT/tapping!

You get this great Cheat Sheet and a Prep Sheet to print out and use, plus two other shorty ebooks to inspire you and keep you on track!

CLICK RIGHT HERE to get this FREEbie Audio MP3 Recording of the No More Calling Fears Teleclass, plus the Two Cheat Sheets and two Bonus Ebooks!

Once your zero-dollar interaction goes through, you’re directed immediately to the download page to get the Audio and the Goodies. Plus, just in case, you also get an email with the information to get to the download page.

WHAT PEOPLE SAY:

Hi Angela! Thank you SO MUCH for your Calling teleseminar last night! I already used the technique with one of my clients to help her more effectively manage anxiety! YOU ROCK!  
~ J.H., Coach

I just want to say thank you for recording the call, and the free ebooks. I appreciate all you do. Blessings to you and yours.
~ Gay Hergert , at EFTandMe.com

 

Thank you for sharing your time and energy with us. I enjoyed the No More Calling Fears teleconference. It was easy to follow and you stayed on task. I liked…the Curiosity Calling technique. I’m new to EFT. I’ve had several major life changes & I am trying to get back on track. I am taking baby steps & this teleconference was one step in the right direction.

I was afraid people would say no to me if I called them. I liked the material you covered, and your laid-back atmosphere. Now I use EFT & take 3 deep breaths, and it’s better. Thank you!
~ Sheryl L.

I was trained from an early age that phone calls mean bad news. Your teleclass added one more tool to my personal development toolbox. I feel better about calling now – I approach it with curiosity. Thanks -
~ P.R..

MSG, the Silent Poison

When I lived in New Mexico many years ago, I got a series of weekly massages from a women who had just moved to the area. She was really good. As I got to know her better, I started noticing how every once in a while she’d kind of space out and mentally “go’ somewhere else, and I’d have to speak to her quite loudly to bring her back to present.

I mentioned it to her out of curiosity, and I’m so glad I did, because she had an amazing – horrifying, really – story.

Right click on the image to the left to get your FREE ebook.

From successful lawyer to too ill to work.

She’d been a very successful lawyer, with a practice that was so busy that she started not taking care of herself, and drinking diet c___ (I won’t name it here but you know what I’m talking about!) and eating fast food and take-outs.

Epilepsy?

She started having up to 20 epileptic fits a day. They became so severe that she couldn’t work anymore, and finally had to close down her business. She lost everyone except two dear friends. Her family members thought she was just ‘trying to get attention, and should chill out.’ She lost her house, car, lover – everything. She became depressed and suicidal. And since she hadn’t put 2 and 2 together yet, she still drank the soda.

On the edge of surgery

She was so desperate to get her clear-thinking mind back that she almost opted for radical brain surgery to address the fits. But luckily, she found a savvy doctor who had her stop drinking the soda.

It took a while, and she had to start eating right and taking care of herself, but her seizures mellowed out and finally stopped after about a year.

After she started feeling better and was able to drive and to be about in the world, she needed to find work – as well as create within herself a feeling of contribution through service. So she studied to become a massage practitioner, since it was one of the few things she could do and make some money without having to strain her brain.

But she was still very spacey a lot of the time – and this was 5 years after stopping drinking the soda, when I met her.

Do you suffer from this without knowing?

Many people suffer from neurological disorders that stem from what they ate, ingested some way or were injected with. But the real issue is whether or not we are going to take action and demand the cessation of the manufacture and use of poison in our everyday foods.

Be really careful if you’re allergic to MSG!

If I eat it, within 15 minutes my bones start to feel like they’ve been tazered. Like they are shattering from within. It lasts for up to 24 hours. Not at all fun. If you notice yourself reacting to what everyone else is eating and thinks is normal – pay attention! Check to see if there is aspartame or MSG – two big culprits.

And go here for great information on MSG: MSGMyth.com

And, you can tap for food reactions!

Sandi Radomski is well-known for her use of EFT and other transformative tools for helping people with food reactions and allergies. Look her up.

Get Change Your Mind! with EFT (at the tab at the top of this page) – that’ll help you learn how to tap for your mental, emotional and physical ailments.

And make sure you right click on the image above to get the important free ebook about MSG.

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What You Focus On Is What You Get!

Yesterday, I suggested to someone to stop focusing on herself and start focusing on her dream, instead.

I say that to a lot of people, actually.

And I say it often. Including to myself.

Because I know from hard experience, both in my own life and from witnessing the healing of others for so many years, that it’s only possible to create your dream if you focus on it, and not your poor, pathetic, sad, grieving, hurt, unperfect, guilty (add your own self-talk here) self.

It’s really true, that old saying:
Where your thoughts go your energy flows.

Focus on sad, you get sad.
Focus on feeling better, feeling better comes.
Focus on creating dreams, dreams get created.

In my own experience of with umpteen years of depression, I got to see myself spiral down and down and down until I really thought there was no way up, ever.

And then I had the surprise good fortune to learn energy practices. Ho! Miracle! I practiced every day. Sometimes all day – what else did I have to do? After so many years in Down, Up seemed impossible, but I was bound and determined to get there, because Down was killing me.

I got to see myself climbing my inner ladder back up and up and up again. Until now I never go back down as far as I did. Ever.

So, how do you climb out without knowing how, or without a friendly supportive hand? There’s the rub. Most of us stumble along without knowing how. OK. Here’s how.

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